Lamaya’s Corner

Yet another failed appointment. Let me explain:

I emailed “S.A” back and forth, hoping that we’d be able to meet.

What got me suspicious was that he had no cell phone. I’ve been Escorting for nearly 6 months. Every single client I’ve met had a cell phone. What if I had to cancel? What if the client got lost and didn’t know where our meeting place was?

It would be impossible to give directions or to cancel an appointment and reschedule…without a cell phone.

Second thing: He kept on saying how he hates doing outcalls and why he prefers incalls. He kept asking me if I did incall…when my ad specifically said No Incall.

Where I live on Long Island, the threat of getting arrested by LE is high. Doing incall in my town (and in my house) would be like playing Russian Roulette with my freedom.

I waited anyway. The last thing I need is to be accused of being flaky again.

Are independent providers (escorts) obligated to call a potential client back?

I promised to call one back…and never did. Right after I emailed this person, I had to take care of some important business matters. I didn’t call them back because my duties took longer than expected.

He then started calling me a fag and a fake, who would want to see you, I’m a fag…and all sorts of nasty names.

He kept on asking me to call him. I wasn’t interested in him. He eventually told me to “go away” because I “wasted his time”.

I made excuses up just to get him to leave me alone. Just because I didn’t call him back doesn’t make me fake. He wanted to see if I was real.

Why should I have to jump through hoops to prove to a man that I’m a real escort? Last time I checked, I’m supposed to screen a client (to see if they’re genuine)

He wasted MY time by constantly emailing me. I told him I was not interested.